So I found out this girl wants me to ask her to prom. I thought about it and when her friend came and asked me I said no and thought that was it. But recently I found that her friend keeps asking people I know to ask me to ask her. My only solution it seems is to go up to her and say, "Hey I know you haven't actually asked me to go to prom with you but if you were thinking of it the answers no." i don't want to be a dick. What do I do? :shock: Edit- My problem has nothing to do with her looks. My problem is A) In my 3 years of high school I have probably said less then 2 sentences to her B) We are from 2 completely different social circles. Her being the semi-popular honors/class president student from upper middle class family and me being the lower middle class video-game/sci-fi honors student who listens to music thats almost 1/2 a century old and watches a dude who named himself after Stalin play video games on youtube. So please some real advice. PS- There are some other people I might want to ask.
I say ignore it until she actually has the guts to ask you. Then tell her no. If you keep trying to be a nice guy for too long you'll end up slow dancing with her.
I've always felt that if you're not willing to ask the question, you don't deserve the answer. If her friends press you, just tell them if she wants an answer she's gotta ask you in person.
IT DOES were communist but hey we still like big boobs and nice rounds butts! sorry for the girls on here i just tell it like it itz
Given that I've never met a girl IRL who wasn't an idiot, looks are pretty much the only thing that would influence the decision for me.
... -_- Yeah, you'll def end up with a keeper if you only judge by looks. But as to you having never met a girl who wasn't an idiot, unfortunately that is the majority of both genders. Judging only by looks wont really help you find one who isn't though.
To the OP, if they keep bugging you even after you have said no then you shouldn't really feel bad about asking them to stop. Just be nice about it and explain to her that her friend has been constantly bugging you about it and that you have no interest.
If he's not interested in her then he shouldn't give in just because her friend is out of line and constantly bugging him even though he said no.
