Serious question

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  1. POSTS GIFS Member

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    Yeah I know this isn't a GIF, but I've had a good look around this place and a lot of the people here seem like pretty swell people. I have a serious real life problem some of you might be able to help me with.
    I'm in high school, and I'm almost certain one of my teachers is into me. Really into me. I'm 17 and she's 24ish. Obviously you're thinking it's all in my pubescent head. I'm not going to lie, she's seriously attractive, but I know my place and don't do anything out of the ordinary to attract her. I'll tell you what she does, and you guys can decide if I'm just imagining things.

    She always touches me in class. She goes around the class looking at people's work, and when she gets to me she puts her hand on my shoulder or arm as she points to something on my page. This happens almost every class to me, but rarely to other students. Sometimes she will lean over my desk, suppourting herself with one arm on the desk and another on the back of my chair, with my arm touching my back and boobs at eye level. This i've never seen her do to anyone else. She is constantly complimenting my work and seems to be lenient with my marks. She's friendly to everyone so students can talk to her more freely than most other teachers, but especially to me. She laughs at all my jokes. Today I went to her office outside of class (during lunchtime) for help and we ended up having a long casual conversation (that was a bit more personal than it ) instead of getting much stuff done, so she asked if I wanted to come back after school. I saw this pretty much as an invitation for sex (though she didn't really ), and politely declined.

    Was I wrong? Are there any girls here who can tell me whats going on? Or maybe expereinced guys? I'm not to savvy with the fairer sex.

    Even if you're not, what's my course of action? Shut the door and make it clear I'm not interested? Let her continue, but carry on and stay neutral? Take the plunge and reap the rewards? Is the teacher just sort of attracted/affectionate to me, but not to the point of sex?

    No i'm not faking this for attention, I get enough of that by staying in character as a person who posts gifs, and besides I hardly know you people, what good would it do me.
  2. Unregarded Royalty Member

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    Well at some point I believe you're going to have to confront her with her actions and explain what kind of signals she is putting out there and ask her whether she is doing this with no intent or if she is having something in mind.
    I know it is going to be hard to ask her these questions since it's basicly asking "Do you like?"
    But if you want answers I can't think of any other way besides letting it slide, and that is always a bad idea since it will just build up inside until you fall into deep confussion, and believe me that doesn't fell nice.
    So talk to her about this matter; That is my advise
  3. Onyxja Well-Known Member

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    Where have I heard this before?
    Oh yea every teenage guy with an attractive teacher.
  4. thelistener Well-Known Member

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    That's not a problem. Ask her after class etc about that. If she's interested in you and if years of television and internet have taught me something; you should fuck her.
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  5. The Evil Major Well-Known Member

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    Well it is your decision, and if I were in your shoes I'd ask myself "What do I want and what are the risks?"
  6. ddbb089 Well-Known Member

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    Okay there could be two situations here:1.She is attracted to you like a wheelbarrow-ful of magnets to a car. Or
    2.You are overreacting to her actions towards you.(I'd doubt this one)

    If you'd want to bang her you should NEVER,EVER tell anyone about yyou had an affair with her,couse if you tell your friend he'll tell his friend who'll maybe tell his/her parents and then the parents will tell the police and she would be charged with having an affair with you and her career would be ruined.

    If you don't want that to happen you shouldn't go into her house at all(or until you are 18),or as stated before go in and never tell anyone about it.
  7. The Shaw Rawnald Gregory Erickson the Second

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    Take a risk and go all in. If you're wrong it won't matter because you'll graduate soon enough and you'll both forget about it. But if you're right...

    And if you ignore her or push her away then you'll be left wondering. And I don't know about you, but to me that's torture.
  8. Benerfe Well-Known Member

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    Step 1. Proceed to teachers house
    2. Tap that, and make a GIF of that.
    3.????????????????
    4.Profit.

    But seriously you can open up to us, anyone who clicks join on this site will and always be a member, even if you are banned..

    And my advice would probably not to do it.. Until you're 18.
  9. Chives Newest Member

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    There is no step three.
    That's simply not true.
    If he does it now, he can't be convicted of anything.
  10. Benerfe Well-Known Member

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    You speak of blasphemy, Sir.. ( You are the NKVD leader)
  11. Spartacus Well-Known Member

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    Confront her. If it's true go for it, this a fantasy for just about every single straight male you lucky bastard (just don't be a idiot and tell anybody, she may not be able to go to jail but it could still ruin her reputation a career). If it's not true, then nothing's really lost.
  12. General Mosh Citystates Founder!

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    Just confront her about it, although I think it may all be your imagination.

    But if its true, I'm jelly ;)
  13. Sister Sweater Vest Member

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    Well most importantly you are underage. It would be a crime to have sex with her. I believe that this coupled with the fact you are unsure of how you should feel is enough to just stay out of that situation. If its keeping you up at night confront her,, & tell her you aren't interested.
  14. Spartacus Well-Known Member

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    Nonsense, this is a once in a lifetime opportunity, if he likes her he should go for it.
  15. Sister Sweater Vest Member

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    If I had the once in a lifetime opportunity of getting away with murder, should I? This young man is obviously confused about the situation. If you have any doubts about something this serious then you should just stay out of it.
  16. Spartacus Well-Known Member

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    Murder and sex are a bit different, are they not? My advice was and is to confront her. If she is actually attracted to him then he should go for it. If he does not want to, fine. However he would get a chance to do somethig that mose people never even get a chance at doing, so I think he should go for it.
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  17. Sister Sweater Vest Member

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    Her feelings are secondary to his. It is very unprofessional for her to come on to one of her students. As we can see her actions have upset him.
  18. Spartacus Well-Known Member

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    I don't care how unprofessional it is. If she wants to have sex with him and he wants to have sex with her, who cares? And no he is not upset, he just wanted advice on what to do.
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  19. UnitRico Well-Known Member

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    Whether he is legal to have sex or not, I'm pretty sure the teacher will get fired if a story like this would surface.

    So, wait until you graduate, and then go for it.
  20. Sister Sweater Vest Member

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    That should be fine. There should be laws allowing conceptual sex to happen despite the age limit. However for the time being that is not the law.

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