This is the scenario- I was in the locker room changing clothes then some douchebag that nobody likes starts talking shit, then I had one of my random anger rages and told him " God Fucking dammit! Shut up! " And he spits on my shirt. I then proceed to punch him in the face and push him over a bleachers, knocking the back of his head into a locker. The kid just got up and started laughing. He thought other people were laughing at me for some dumb reason but they were laughing at HIM. Anyhow can we justify violence in these kind of issues. So we are clear I mean a fist-fight sort of thing.
Your so hardcore, in my opinion yes, you can really justify anything if you believe it the enough and get others to rally your cause.
Yes it can be justified. There might be better ways to go about it, but there's nothing wrong with getting in this kind of fight, especially when you're standing up for yourself or someone else.
Violence is a part of human nature. Also sometimes you have to put someone in their place or get put in your place by someone else (usually the latter for me). Of course there are those that say (often feminists) that this is a way of the past and that we have to evolve to the newer society unless we want to go extinct. However boys will be boys and if we are going to go extinct we will do it driving muscle cars and drinking brandy and various forms of hard liquor picking fights over who saw the stripper first. Violence is rarely justified but as humans and in particular men we are prone to violence.
You know them when you see them. Well, maybe you do. I guess it all depends on where you see them from. But enough of this. I feel as though the OP can be helped, I just don't know how. First off, I can almost 200% guarantee that the course of action you took was the wrong one. But somebody over the internet can not coach you through social behaviors. Learn the hard way.
That guy who flips shit over nothing. Though this seems that after the spitting the punch was warranted. Edit- Well the push was warranted at least. The punch may have gone too far.
First of all, learn to fucking control yourself. Do you have tourettes? He fully expected you to retaliate from the spit and you gave him exactly what he wanted. You probably looked like a complete spaz in the process and I doubt you punched him hard enough to hurt him. It probably was funny, everybody was laughing at you because you're a crazy motherfucker. Either you wallow in pity, or you man up and seriously inflict damage on that guy. I recommend kicking him in the solar plexus, delivering a jab to the face in order to make him keel over and kicking him in the nape of the neck.
Well, you almost got it. More to it than that. The spitting was dumb, and the punch was definitely warranted after that, but he did flip shit over nothing.
I'm assuming he was going to go specifically for the temple or the nose to disorientate him, but yes, he should probably kick him in the genitals to avoid damaging his hand.
NO KIDDING. If you break your hand that usually means your a fatass . Just speaking from experience I've never heard of a not fat guy breaking his hand unless said person was punching an inanimate object. Also LOL
Of course he did. But that doesn't mean that lighthouse isn't that guy. It's really hard to explain. Maybe I can more readilly understand because in middle school I was that guy.
No, I understand what you mean, I just disagree that the outburst itself was over nothing. It wasn't the right thing to do, but he had a reason for being angry. And that's about as much as I can say on this matter I admittedly know little about.