Need advice

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  1. 3man75 Well-Known Member

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    very sorry...stalin
    Ok this not the ideal place but...
    How do you fight bulling at 18?
    For most ppl it enda around here but
    Thats not the case qth me. Im going into my
    Last year in high school and id like aome advice
    On hw to deal wth it.


    Using a phone write all of this so dont hate
    I get enough of that
  2. Melanthropist Well-Known Member

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    If you're not physically strong you probably will have to go to a teacher. If you are reasonably strong, punch him in the face.
  3. Viking Socrates I am Mad Scientist

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    Actually punching him in the face might work anyway.
  4. pedro3131 Running the Show While the Big Guy's Gone

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    Depends, a lot of the time bully's don't back up their word with action, so you can scare him off without actually having to fight him. That said there are plenty of bully's out there that will fight, but I still think standing up for yourself is always a good idea.
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  5. trots 20-20 Member

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    Start a militant group and be the leader and make sure to have a beard. He'll piss his pants when he sees you wearing a suit in 80 degree farenheit weather and yelling at a crowd of students

    should look something like this
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    You'll probably also get mad bitches and scare your teachers into a college recommendation note
  6. UnitRico Well-Known Member

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    Ignore them? That usually seems to work, although it depends on the situation, of course.
  7. thelistener Well-Known Member

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    Well its fairly obvious that he has tried otherwise he wouldn't be here.

    @3man73 I advise that you threaten fight and if that doesn't work, hit him or if you aren't physically strong kick him in the nuts, he will think twice before coming back.
  8. Romulus211 Proconsul

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    If you have freinds ask them to back you up, and Confront him.
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    What type of bullying are we talking about here?
  10. Surfusa Lost in space-time

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    Is this physical or mental bullying?
  11. C_G Well-Known Member

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    If someone starts on you just square up to them. Do it the first time aswell, make sure that bullies know you don't want them fucking with you. That's what I did in one of the roughest schools in South Manchester and I never got the slightest bit of shit for 5 years, unless I was the one starting it.
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    Get superpowers and rip his front teeth out with them.
  13. Lighthouse Well-Known Member

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    Well being a person who has experenced this first hand. The one thing you DO NOT wanna do is tell a teacher or anything. That gets you nowhere and often makes matters worse.

    1) Confront him you can do this by...

    A- Just say fuck you and stuff whenever he insults you, makes you seem more " normal "
    B- I dont know your physcial state so this MIGHT not work, if you do suceed in fighting him he WILL leave you alone, dont do anything dirty because last kid got was bullied and kicked the bully in the balls, alot more people hated him.

    2) Ignore him, I got bullied alot and it didnt change me much. Just dont take it too seriously.
  14. Karakoran Well-Known Member

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    Actually just skip the whole confronting him thing and call a hit.
  15. MayorEmanuel Do not weep, for salvation is coming.

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    If a bully did put any action behind his words he would be not only expelled but Florida State Schools also have jail time attached to expostulation for fighting in schools. He just needs some tough words and he'll be fine.
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    The only person who offered a good suggestion. Make sure to do outside of class.
  17. 3man75 Well-Known Member

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    The dude plays for the baseball balle team down in my school baseball athletes beat the football team 1000X
    over. The guy is more like a scrape with insults and then his entourage and Friends come after me. It really sucks and
    don't want a repeat of my freshman year on my senior year.

    If i stand up i know ill lose, if i sucker punch i get my ass kicked AND i get suspended for assualt. oh one last thing
    the guy is the same year as me and only 17! if i fight him i can go to jail for beating a minor and im afraid what my parents
    would think if i got bullied by a younger person.
  18. Thefatkid Well-Known Member

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    What is your dad like?
  19. Yarpen Well-Known Member

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    Go fetch some psychology books, and then destroy his mind.
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  20. UtterlyImpeccable Well-Known Member

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    What a complete tit. People usually grow out of bullying around the age of 14.

    I can't really offer any advice, since I've never been bullied, but don't let it escalate into violence. I can't see how hitting him would make anything better, especially if he has tougher friends.

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