Well I Have Nothing To Lose So Why Not

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  1. slydessertfox Total War Branch Head

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    Ok so by the title you guys are probably wondering what the hell I am talking about. Well I am sorry to disappoint you but no I am not gonna go on a Soviet or Che type rant. :( I just want to ask you guys for some advice/help. I am not the type of person that talks to girls I am attracted to, and need your advice. There is this girl I have liked for a couple years now. She is popular but not the type of "I am better than everyone" popular. She seems to be very nice and is very smart as well. Anyway, as I am not one to talk to girls, I need some advice on how I can if nothing else at least get the guts to talk to her. If you read this far, thank you. If you can help, then that would be even more appreciated.
  2. Leutenant_Germany Active Member

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    hmmm, im not sure about American girls but in germany girls are fond of boldness, but not too much boldness if that makes sence
  3. slydessertfox Total War Branch Head

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    Sort of.
  4. CoExIsTeNcE LeonTrotsky in Disguse

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    First, I have to bring this back.

    Now for the legitimate advice. Be yourself. All you can do. If you don't it won't work out anyway, so why bother. Just go for it. She seems nice the way you describe her, so I doubt she would be overtly offended by your advances. (Though try to be even a tiny bit smooth.)

    No pickup lines. Just say hello.
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    show them you have a pair but dont come off as a creep haha
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    Don't compromise on anything and don't give a single thought to what people will think of you for it (outside of rational prediction, anyways). Any social fear is derived from irrational social programming and if you simply act according to what you want instead of what you think is merely acceptable then you will be better for it and chances are that you'll actually get what you want.
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    But I would try to get to know her in a non-relationship way be for you proclaim you're love for her from the parapets. Unless you already are.
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    Be a friend to her, and then step it up. simple. It's worked for me.
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    While there are woman who are atracted to shy guys, be aware that shyness often is interpreted as arrogance. Confidence is key, without being secure about yourself, how can a girl be sure that you are sure about her?
    I suggest you just walk over to her with the goal of having a nice conversation, if that fails it most likely means that you two are not meant for each other. Allways remember that rejection is part of almost every man growing up. And there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. Just be sure not to make a fool out of yourself by being a dick about it, if she doesn't see you like you do to her, that is fine. I mean whats the worst that can come of from a try at a convesation? It can only benefit yourself.
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    just approach her and start menial conversations.
  11. MayorEmanuel Do not weep, for salvation is coming.

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    First thing you do is size her up, look at her from different angles. You need to find out exactly what she needs and give it to her. At this point you have an "in" with her. Then it's pay back time-with interest. Now you might find some problems with this as she is both attractive and popular. And I know I'm not going to make any friends here with my callous use of the lonely, marginalized, and insecure but it has worked for me many times. I would try this out on some other girls first as you may have trouble finding people's self-doubt right off the bat, work up to her.
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    Yeah, approach her and start talking. But don't be creepy like having long interruptions during your talk, it just shows how nervous you are and un-secure.
  13. 0bserver92 Grand King of Moderation

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    This is entirely lies.
  14. Romulus211 Proconsul

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    Er what? it works for me.
  15. yuri2045 A Marines Biologist

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    You most assurely just creeps the women out.
  16. 0bserver92 Grand King of Moderation

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    Never ever worked for me ever but my problem may have been they were French.
  17. Romulus211 Proconsul

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    SO walking up to women and Starting conversations with them is creepy? It works, I say it works.
  18. MayorEmanuel Do not weep, for salvation is coming.

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    Or just pick one of these.

    Just because they have hairy underarms doesn't mean talking to them won't work.
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    Not conversations...I'm talking about menial conversations as you stated.
  20. slydessertfox Total War Branch Head

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    Well that is one problem I have with talking to girls. I am trying to work on that.
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